In pt.1, I made the distinction of the differences between a bond and a person. Naturally an example is in order. But first, an elaboration will be key. Another way to look at the word bond within the context of this and the previous document. Is the happy and positive things people experience(d) and associate with a person, in this particular case a romantic other. Or in other words, the good times and the good feelings in the past, the present, and the anticipation of it in the future.
In pt.1 we established the following:
True Love =
Loving the person more than you love the bond. (In other words. Doing what is best for them (the person), and not what is best for you (the bond, specifically your reluctance of damaging it and/or losing it in someway).)
With the information presented here, we can add on to the previous knowledge for the sake of specifics and understanding:
Therefore,
True Love =
Loving the person more than you love the bond.
(In other words. Doing what is best for them (the person), and not what is best for you (the bond).)
Contrasting with the above example of the couple in "love." Means that doing what is best for the other person, specifically means to help them grow and ripen as much as possible in anyway that you can. Keep in mind that doing what is best for the other person, inevitably involves making positive and healthy decisions for yourself anyways.
Therefore, everyone benefits in the most profound and meaningful of ways.
To take it yet another step further. Your example of Judgmental Love Influences Others to Do and Be the Same. It Influences Your Friends, Family, Partner, and Other Members of Humanity to Do and Be the Same.
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